Tuesday, April 5, 2011
When God closes a door...
He really does open a window. Or another door. Or eight new doors. Or sometimes, even, an entirely new building.
I realized recently that I had been looking closely for something in one place for quite sometime. After years of looking, expecting and hoping for it, I finally accepted that it was never going to happen. So I let go and gave up the desire for it. Only after I let it go did something else completely unexpected happen in an entirely new place with entirely new people.
Yes, I'm being vague. It doesn't matter what it was for me, rather, the important thing is that we all begin to learn the lesson that looking for something is far different from allowing yourself to be open to something. There are many wise spiritual leaders, metaphysical gurus and none-too-few books that talk about how we attract things to us. And I've learned, after much studying, reading and listening that they all have pretty much the same thing to say: We are constantly attracting to us all sorts of things but what the universe (or God) has in store for us is always exactly what we need, be it an opportunity to learn, to grow or to experience something important. The universe contains such incredible power and works in so many ways we can't possibly measure or understand. The problem is that we get so attached to what we want (or worse, what we think we need) that we often miss those opened windows, additional doors and brand new opportunities that pop up around us all the time.
Have the courage to stop looking for something in particular and open yourself to all of the wonderful things that life is bringing to you. They are coming all the time whether you notice them or not. And don't get attached to what you think the outcome should be. The actual outcome, once it has come to pass, will be far greater than you could have imagined yourself. I know, I've witnessed what is behind my own newly opened window after I finally stopped trying to get back into that closed door...
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your insight is profound, and wise.
ReplyDeleteYes. I need to work on this myself. Very well said, Amy!
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